Violence UnSilenced

I'm ripping this headline from the headlines, since the blog by the same name has become an instant success. You might think success is a weird, even insensitive word to use for an online forum where victims and survivors of domestic violence share their stories.

But it's true. The blog is three days old and already averaging a thousand hits a day. Its founder, Maggie Ginsberg-Schutz, is one of my writers, and she began her journey (well, her public one anyway) to give voice to a silent epidemic in an article published in Madison Magazine in 2007. Then last year she worked with Domestic Abuse Intervention Services to find women who’d be willing to tell their stories publicly, which among other things threatens their safety. Last November we published her amazing article on seven local survivors.

Maggie didn’t stop there. She worked all winter to launch Violence Unsilenced, and for all you Internet smarties who know how to measure success in the blogosphere, this is the reaction to the site after 24 hours.

2,250 hits on violenceunsilenced.com
1,329 hits on okayfinedammit (where comments were closed)
106 comments
126 emails (not including the 44 between the designer and I)
51 mentions of the words 'violenceunsilenced' on Twitter -- (a fun illustration of this is to go to www.summize.com and type in 'violenceunsilenced' and also 'maggiedammit')
10 direct messages on twitter (a secondary email, like facebook emails)
22 new twitter followers
9 Facebook messages
an instant Technorati rank of 7 right out of the gates (wicked good)
a request for an interview on blog talk radio next week
a request for a Q&A on some blog I can't think of the name of right now
a guy actually made a video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0wnxaSs4wZY
the editor of BlogNosh magazine requested a badge to put in rotation on her (megapopular) site for free
32 new survivor stories sitting in my inbox ready to publish
countless numbers of Diggs, Stumbles, and Google Reader shares (no way for me to track this)
#2 spot on Kirtsy.com for the day

Maggie has been writing a very popular blog from her home in rural southern Wisconsin for a few years, so her social networking universe is huge and paying off. Widely read blogs like Alltop and BlogNosh are noticing, but more importantly the word is spreading in an innovative way to reach a whole new audience of people who are touched by this, or who simply care.

Maggie knows viscerally how this kind of success turns your stomach when you think about it. It’s such a sad and frightening thing. But at the same time it’s beautiful and powerful, like the “Take Back the Night” marches designed in part to return the power abusers have deliberately taken away. And to begin the healing. And this writer/blogger Maggie who is not a social justice advocate but a journalist is using the power of words and now, the Internet, to try to heal deep wounds but even more importantly to prevent the first act of violence from ever happening. Take Back the Night 2.0.

You know when somebody like Sully, the guy who landed the plane in the Hudson, shies away from the word "hero" because through his lens he was just trying to help? That's Maggie. She's just trying to help. And so far she's had some terrific success.

Absolut Improv

Writer, humorist and corporate trainer Jodi Cohen is at it again. She’s teaching improv workshops this winter and spring and lemme tell you they are special. A couple workshops ago Jodi asked friends to stop by the last class to serve as audience for her students’ to practice their technique. A half-dozen of us showed up like groupies outside a concert tour bus. I was so excited to see Jodi in action that it never occurred to me she would be busy instructing rather than performing that evening. No matter. Watching her teach was almost as much fun.

Her nurturing calm and pragmatic, reasonable approach to teaching stood out. The folks taking this class weren’t budding Saturday Night Live comedians (though did you know Jodi worked with Chris Farley during his Madison days?); they were ordinary people—some shy, some funny, some dramatic—who were taking the class to fulfill a variety of personal needs and goals. Watching the moment take over their nervousness and inhibitions was inspiring. They had all come there simply to learn new skills and in the process they had become an improv troupe for one night. My little girl was so entertained she didn’t want to leave. Of course, she was smitten with Jodi, having recently seen her fabulous one-woman holiday show “Oy to the World.”

When Jodi sent a call out for classes this spring, I actually considered taking one myself. Coming out of my shell has been a lifelong project and I think Jodi’s class would help shed more of my turtle-like habits. Alas, I had conflicts (both real and internal, I’m sure)… but maybe you don’t?

Says Jodi, “The improv for writers is really quite wonderful. I’m teaching it differently than I have before. You don’t have to leave your chair. At all. It’s using some of the basic improv principles in writing practice. Lots of room for one’s imagination to blossom.”

Hm. Maybe I should reconsider.

Jodi also tells me she’s excited about her improv for adults class. “It’s a great group,” she says. “One man crawled around on the floor in pretty much every scene. I’ve labeled him ‘the crawler’ in my subtext.

“We did this one exercise where we give each other imaginary presents. The person ‘receiving’ the present gets to say what it is. One young man in the class who is tres adorable said, for some reason people kept giving me dead animals. We were hysterical, as it was always his own imagination at work.”

If you're a writer in need of an imagination kick-start (and let's be honest, who isn't?), get thee to Jodi's class! There's one this weekend called "Eight Ways to Create a Character." Take it in the afternoon, then dazzle your partner with more than one romantic you...